Multiple Fixes for Hedged Requests in ClickHouse

Multiple fixes for hedged requests. Fixed an error Can't initialize pipeline with empty pipe for queries with GLOBAL IN/JOIN when the setting use_hedged_requests is enabled. Fixes #23431. #23805 (Nikolai Kochetov). Fixed a race condition in hedged connections which leads to crash. This fixes #22161. #22443 (Kruglov Pavel). Fix possible crash in case if unknown packet was received from remote query (with async_socket_for_remote enabled). Fixes #21167. #23309 (Nikolai Kochetov).