Cut Long Column Names in Pretty Formats by Default

Cut too long column names in pretty formats by default. This is controlled by the output_format_pretty_max_column_name_width_cut_to and output_format_pretty_max_column_name_width_min_chars_to_cut settings. This is the continuation of the work of tanmaydatta in #66502. This closes #65968. #73851 (Alexey Milovidov).